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I heard my teacher say, "why is a pacifier", and felt a little energy burst, kind of like opening a passage way that has been closed for many years. Yes pacifiers soothe, and they have helped me along the way; but I longed for real. Through various transitions, the “why” pacified me, but kept me bound to the “why”. As a kid growing up in a volatile home with deeply unhappily-married parents, there was a lot of anger and tension. The “why” I interpreted was there was somethin

Let your curiosity be greater than you fear - Pema Chodron For many, many years I innocently judged myself mercilessly. I didn't know it was a thought habit, I thought it was the truth. I thought I had many flaws and spent a lot of time, money and of course more thought trying to correct them. The assumption was that with less imperfections, the more ease and joy I would have in my life. The more at home I would be in my own skin. Of course I had a list of things that if I